When you saw your ex boyfriend walking away after the breakup, you thought he would never want to see you again. The thought that he would ever miss being with you seemed impossible. But in reality, he might be missing you more than you think. Getting your ex boyfriend to miss you and need to get you back could be much easier than you think.
The way to make your ex boyfriend go crazy missing you and need you back is to do the opposite of what your instincts are telling you to do. Your instincts are telling you to chase him and tell him you cannot live without him, or to call him and send emails and text messages until he finally gives in and takes you back. Using these tactics will make him pull even farther away from you because he will see you as being a needy and pushy person that he will want nothing to do with. To get your ex back, you have to make him miss you, and he cannot miss anyone that is constantly in his face.
Look at how you made him love you before. You did not throw yourself at him then and tell him you could not live without him. If you had, he would have thought you were some kind of nut and run away from you as fast as possible. He will react to these tactics the same way now. You need to take a break for yourself and get yourself together. Go on a vacation or visit out of town relatives. Do anything to put as much distance between your ex and yourself. You will also find that getting away will clear your mind and help restore your self confidence. To get your ex back you will need to have your self confidence back and show him you are the happy carefree woman he fell in love with before.
How to make your ex boyfriend go crazy missing you and need to get you back is as easy as using some simple male psychology. Men are notorious for wanting what they cannot have. If you ignore him and appear to have forgotten all about him, it will push all of his emotional hot buttons and he will begin to miss you. When he thinks about you, he will only think of your good points. The more he misses you, the more his desire will grow. This will cause him to become as desperate for you as you are for him and he will come after you.
This is when you need to be careful. If you give in too quickly, he will feel that you were just faking and that you still love him so much that you cannot resist him, and he will soon lose interest again. On the other hand, you do not want to be too hard to get or that can make him become discouraged and give up. The best way to get your ex back is the way you got him before. It worked then and it will work again.